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When One Part Hurts

Some thoughts from a week of prayers, tears and hope—on the family of God, the fragility of life, and the greater resurrection we are all waiting for.

A Few More Movies, A Few More Questions

A few more movies, and a few more uncomfortable questions—about hidden hearts, religious certainty, little church kingdoms, and what our faith actually produces.

A Few Movies, A Few Thoughts

A few thoughts on innocence, grace, the passing of time, and what we hold onto when everything else gives way.

Things I Saw and Thought About in Jakarta (Part 1/2)

Posted on June 18, 2025June 23, 2025 by melly

A short trip back to Indonesia after only two months away — time with family I treasure, roads I increasingly avoid, and conversations that stay with me.

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Aging, Singleness & the Gospel (Part 2/2)

Posted on June 11, 2025June 11, 2025 by melly
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More reflections on the way we often misunderstand singleness, and the better perspective the gospel offers us, whatever our relationship status.

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Aging, Singleness & the Gospel (Part 1/2)

Posted on June 10, 2025October 5, 2026 by melly
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A recent talk reminded me that while the gospel doesn’t make life easy, it does make it clear and hope-filled. Some reflections on the realities of life, aging, and especially singleness.

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Observations From 2025 Indo Trip

Posted on March 6, 2025March 6, 2025 by melly

From regrettable movie choice on the plane to finding a new church in the neighbourhood!

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Handy Phrases in 2024

Posted on February 25, 2025May 28, 2025 by melly

Sharing my 2024 list that keeps me grounded—just by starting each morning with a simple reminder from my whiteboard.

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Whither Hath 2024 Gone! (2/2)

Posted on February 16, 2025February 17, 2025 by melly

More reflections post-Engage Conference—on growth, self-awareness, and solitude. And a book recommendation!

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Whither Hath 2024 Gone! (1/2)

Posted on January 16, 2025February 16, 2025 by melly

A reflection on how our instant-gratification culture hinders deep thinking and growth, and the unexpected ways I’ve seen God work through quiet, unseen moments to teach and bless me.

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The Familiar and Unfamiliar – 2024 Mixed Bag Home Trip

Posted on July 26, 2024July 26, 2024 by melly

Always a mixed bag of a trip..!

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So Who is Depressed? (2/2)

Posted on July 10, 2024July 10, 2024 by melly

More glimpses into the dark, and light too.

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