To be Distinctive – Life @ Work 2019
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‘If I’m too comfortable, may be I haven’t stretched myself enough.’
~ Melly Tjoa's Page ~
‘If I’m too comfortable, may be I haven’t stretched myself enough.’
.. meditation is in being even more present, not absent. It is in more thinking and not blanking out thoughts. It is gaining peace not by not thinking, but by thinking rightly. It results in fullness and not emptiness of the mind.
.. we don’t hope in this world, instead in the inheritance that’s been reserved for us, which – unlike anything even the best thing in life can offer – will never change, decay, it’s secure, forever. In fact, the more and worse the trial we face,
Who had expected to go through all they have? Although we all know broken relationships, illness, and even bereavement happen to everyone, we still don’t expect it to happen to us.
Wish it every year if you’d like, but what do we know for certain? You wait long long. For such things simply don’t exist. It doesn’t take long for the mood to settle back into everyday reality – by end of the week?
Does it mean one big happy family? Not really. Just like any biological family, it is by no means perfect. Like everywhere else in the world, full of flawed people who are often self-centred. It is good we’re not kept together because we’re happy with one another (if it is, then it won’t last very long, would it?), but by something that runs much deeper and stronger.
What is 10K compared to 42K? It doesn’t make you less tired, but it certainly put things in perspective.
Meanwhile many were amazed (in particular those who don’t work out at all ), a friend of mine who’s done a few marathons looked at my half-marathon results last year, genuinely bewildered, he said, ‘Why were you running so slowly? I don’t get it. You have no weight to carry.’ Hahahah, and that is right. It takes the true to know the false.
The same thing that makes the day beautiful makes you almost sick of it, do you feel that sometimes?